Sunday, August 9, 2009

Houseboats 09!

I learned a lot this past week, some very valuable lessons in fact, that I will now share with all of you :)
Lessons Learned:
1. When sleeping with 60+ high school students, ear plugs are a must.
2. Being in charge of ensuring that everyone on a boat of 20 high school boys gets a fair amount of food at each meal is a very daunting task.
3. Sleeping on the deck of a houseboat with a full moon and a sky that is painted with a bajillion stars is spectacular. So is waking up with the first glimpses of the sun coming over the mountains.
4. Sharing a camp with another denomination whose theology of outreach is very different than your own church's can be problematic--especially when the other church got to bring the camp speaker for the week.
5. Gallon jugs of milk can be kept frozen in coolers packed with dry ice for 5 days and still be good to drink.
6. Grapes may be a healthy snack but are also the perfect size for high school students to throw at one another...or you...or whoever is walking by--they then get stepped on and ground into the decks of houseboats.
7. Baking fresh baked cookies for 120 people takes hours--especially when half your ovens don't work.
8. Hair can be washed in a lake, not exceptionally well, but definitely better than nothing!
9. Hours of entertainment can be provided to kids by giving them buckets of water they can dump on unsuspecting people who walk through their boat.
10. I LOVE doing ministry with my husband--serving in different ways but in the same community. I loved him being there with me, seeing him connect with these boys (he is wonderful with them!) and having him wander through the kitchen to see how I was doing.
11. Youth ministry, if you let it, will break your heart. The pain in these kids' lives is unreal, and the reality of God's grace becomes that much more real when we realize how absolutely crazy He is about these kids.

If you couldn't tell it has been a full week! Chuck and I spent the week as chaperones and kitchen crew of Glendale Presbyterian's annual youth group houseboat trip to Lake Don Pedro, outside of Merced, CA. Every year the church takes a group of kids (this year we had about 23 from GPC plus a handfull of adults) and joins with another church (who brough about 50 kids this year, plus their leaders) and rents 7 houseboats for a week of swimming, inner tubing, wakeboarding, playing, messy games, and times of worship. It was a phenomenal idea for a summer camp, the kids love it! I went up as part of the 7 member kitchen crew, whose job it was to feed 125 people 3 meals a day, plus a snack and a dessert. No peanut butter and jelly either, the menu was much more impressive! Our days started at 6 AM with breakfast prep and went to about 10:30 when we finally had all desserts delivered to each houseboat. We got a few hours off in the afternoon to rest and play but we definitely worked hard! Chuck went with the high school boys as one of their leaders, staying on the boat with 18 guys. He spent hours playing games, talking, wakeboarding, tubing and hanging out with these guys, showing them how much God loves them. It was a beautiful week and I'll be excited to go again next year! Here is the story of our week in pictures:

I left on Monday with the crew, but first we had to organize and pack all the food for the whole week. Kids came to help us carry and load a uhaul truck filled with food. But first, they decorated all the watermelons with sharpies. Austin, Caroline and Rachel drew a picture of Melissa on one (one of the youth leaders)How do you cook for this many people? You pre-cook everything! Susan has done this trip for about 8 years now and has this down to a science. Everything (baked beans, marinated chicken, carne asada for burritos, chocolate cake mixes, etc) were all pre cooked and then frozen in the church's freezers. Then, everything was packed into 13 coolers according to which meal we would need that food item for. Each cooler was filled with dry ice and labeled with "Tuesday Dinner" etc on top so we never opened the coolers for the end of the week before we got to that day. Amazingly enough even gallons of milk which were used for our last breakfast stayed fresh and frozen all week. It was quite the operation! So each meal we would pull out what we needed, let it sit in the sun to thaw, and then cook each boat's food in their ovens. It was a lot of work but it went very smoothly!Taylor helps load up the lemonade coolersSunrise that first morningAssembling the giant trampolineThey're here! All 6 boats were linked together and then connected to our big staff boat and the whole row was staked and tied to the shore. So these boats didn't go anywhere all week, we stayed in the cove where swimming, the trampoline etc were all set up. There were about 6 ski boats that took groups of kids out during 4 different time slots throughout the day for innertubing and wakeboarding. Enjoying the trampline and blob.Chuck and Matt head out with Henry for some inner tubing.Henry taking out a group of GPC-ers to inner tube on the hot dogGeorge and Michael launching Monica off the blob.The GPC girls chatting and floatingLunch prep one day--each boat received food on their boats for each meal, so we laid everything out in our boat first before delivering it. This day was chili dogs, cheese, chopped onions, chips, oreos, grapes and fruit by the foot.Oh, and lemonade--Dan and Kyle mixed a LOT of lemonade this week!Elpidio grilled a ton of hotdogs this day!Every afternoon they had 6 different kids, one representing each boat, complete the obstacle course. Step one, walk across this wood pannel on the side of a boat without falling off while getting pelted with a hose from above and incredible hulk punching gloves from the side. (most kids ended up in the water, where they swam to step two)Make your way across the lily pads.Climb up on the trampoline and get past whoever was up there blocking your way. Touch the blob without getting tossed into the water.Climb out and ride a bike down the dirt hill into the water for your splash down finish. We are proud to announce that the GPC girls boat came in first at the end of the week when they averaged everyone's times!Group bath time! Every afternoon there was a collection of people outside our staff boat shampooing hair, using body wash, and yes, even shaving their legs. It was great bonding time :)Chuck playing a game with the boysI went out one afternoon to take pictures of the GPC boys wakeboarding. Chris and George are ready!Zach was awesome!Of course George rocks the wakeboardChuck was just learning, and seemed to enjoy his time wake surfing better (which is different than wake boarding, but I didn't go that day to take pictures)In order to avoid doing a bazillion dishes, Susan buys a ton of foil pans, and then we do a layer of aluminum foil over each pan. Everything gets sorted, cooked and served out of these foiled pans. Then for clean up, each boat had to throw away the layer of foil and bring us back the un-messy foil pan to be reused for the next meal. It worked great! Each boat got a stack of nice heavy duty plastic plates and cups which were labeled with their names and they were in charge of washing those each meal and restacking them for the next one. We learned that some freshmen boys have not yet figured out how to wash dishes and the seniors were giving lessons half way through the week when the dishes on the boy's boats had layers of grease still on them. Ew! So here's us prepping lasagna night--pulling apart garlic rolls and foiling pans.On the last day I went with Monica and Clara to try wake boarding on the beginner boat. They had been wanting to try but were scared and the other female leaders didn't really want to go, so George asked if I'd join them. Those of you who know me are probably laughing, wakeboarding is definitely NOT a Sarah-sport, but I wanted to encourage these girls to try so I agreed. They were awesome. Me, not so much.The two guys who go on the beginner boat are awesome. They only take 3 at a time and are super patient. They start you on this boom, so you are almost already out of the water when the boat takes off. Clara got it right away!Then they move you to the short rope, still on the side of the boat.I enjoyed the floating in the water part!Ok, I am ready to try!Wait! Come back boat!!Ok, managed to hang on this time!I even got up on the short rope. Not so much when they moved me to the long rope at the back of the boat! Lots of face planting and water up the nose!Each night they had "club" on the roof of the first 2 houseboats, where they'd do messy games, a couple songs and our speaker would speak. This game involved the girls breaking raw eggs into a paper cup that the boys had to hold in their mouths. Messy games work well on a houseboat cuz after each game the kids just went and jumped in to clean off!Last morning, GPC boys boat pulling out. Bye boys!

Friday, July 31, 2009

this week in a nutshell

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I have read a lot of Harry Potter this week, finishing book 6 and starting book 7, which has been such a fun mental escape. I haven't read book 7 til it came out two years ago and I flew through it in a day and a 1/2 trying to figure out if Harry lived or died or how the whole saga ended, so there are a lot of little details I missed. I am enjoying the story more this time around!

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My friend Heather is here visiting for a wedding this weekend, so she spent last night with us. Apparently the northwest has reached record temperatures (keep in mind, they don't have air conditioning in most places up there, they just don't need it very often), so she's been joking that she came to LA to cool off--can't say I'm wishing I were there right now!

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My little sister started a blog, which I am very excited bout =)

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Tonight, for date night, we're going on a picnic that my husband is in charge of, I am quite excited to see what will be packed and where we will go =) I am in charge of our "activity" which is going to consist of spending time making a "date night" jar. We're going to brainstorm all kinds of inexpensive local dates that we can come up with and write them on strips of paper, filling a jar with date night ideas. That way when it is Friday nights we don't have to do the whole "what do you want to do?" "I don't know, what do you want to do?" We will take turns every other week pulling an idea from our jar and making that idea happen. I'm pretty excited about our jar =)

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We take off on Monday for a week long houseboat trip with the youth from our church--Monday through Saturday, so we'll be out of range/contact for those days. Stay tuned for stories of our adventure (120 people on 5 houseboats for 5 days...) next weekend!

Tuesday, July 28, 2009

some words of poetry for your evening

Nothing is more practical than finding God,
that is, than falling in love
in a quite absolute, final way.

What you are in love with,
what seizes your imagination,
will affect everything.
It will decide
what will get you out of bed in the morning,
what you will do with your evenings,
how you spend your weekends,
what you read,
who you know,
what breaks your heart,
and what amazes you with joy and gratitude.

Fall in love,
stay in love,
and it will decide everything.

Pedro Arrupe

Sunday, July 26, 2009

random thoughts, in no particular order

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I bought season 1 of Gilmore Girls this week at a used DVD store (seasons of TV shows for about $12--can't beat that!) and had forgotten how much I love the quick wit, the hilarious writing, and the delightful characters of this show. It has brought much joy this week!

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Thursday night my small group was together again for the first time all summer--we were only missing Megan, and it was so great to be with them, and enjoy a delightful potluck meal. I hadn't realized how much I had been needing some girl time!

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Last night for dinner I experimented. I had been wanting to make up a batch of vegetarian enchiladas, one pan for the freezer to bake at a later date when I don't feel like cooking. But, I think most canned enchilada sauce just tastes terrible. So, I ended up combining two different recipes. My friend Jean had a recipe for sauce that I made and I used a random veggie enchilada recipe that I found on line for the inside stuff. They were quite a bit of work, but SO good. I doubled the batch and now have plenty of left overs for this week and another pan in the freezer. Chuck gave them a rousing two-thumbs up! Here's the recipe if anyone else wants to try!

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I get to preach next Sunday at a local church around here that is currently without a pastor, I am re-working a sermon I preached two years ago on a chapter from Revelation. It is my favorite sermon I have ever written and I am super excited to get to work with it again!

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I was back at the hospital on Friday to go over my final evaluation with my supervisor, and lets just say I am okay with not being there every day! It was such a familiar place to walk into, and such a joy to get to walk out of after 30 minutes!

Saturday, July 25, 2009

"Without our traditions...

...our lives would be as shaky as...as....a Fiddler on the Roof!"

Last night Chuck and I went out to celebrate our 4th 'mesaversary" (our 4th month of marriage--mesa is month in latin) and this month he agreed to indulge me. See, a few weeks ago I started seeing TV commercials for the tour of Fiddler on the Roof which was coming to the Pantagus Theater in Hollywood. Most of you know I adore musicals--ok, I'll admit it, I have bordered on obsession at times in my life. I've seen these 48 different shows, some several times, and I never, ever get tired of hearing familiar songs move an audience through a story.

I've seen Fiddler a couple times (my dad, who has seen probably more musicals than I have, claims this as one of his all time favorite, so everytime it was near Sacramento we would go). I adore it as well, but realized it's been years since I've seen this particular show. For those who have seen Fiddler, you know that the show centers around the protagonist, Tevye, a Jewish milkman with 5 daughters living in the small Russian village, Anatevka. This show is made amazing by whoever is playing Tevye--his character is central to just about every scene. Playing Tevye this time around was going to be Chaim Topol, the actor who first played Tevye in London in the late 60s and who was cast as Tevye in the motion picture of the musical. He is an unbelievable actor and while he has done plenty of other shows he is going to be forever known as Tevye. He is now 74 years old and has played the role over 2500 times across this globe, on almost every continent. I've seen the movie several times, and knew I wanted to see him in his "farewell tour." Chuck agreed and tickets were purchased. Since he'd never heard of Fiddler on the Roof, muchless know any of the music, I had him watch the movie this week to bcome familiar with the story and songs. After about 20 minutes of the film he looked at me and just said, "wow, this is a beautiful community, this is awesome." He loved it--as I knew he would! Tevye is one of those characters you can't help but love--he has honest conversations with God throughout the show that are hysterical and so real. He wrestles with holding fast to the tradition of his people versus allowing his daughters to break traditions in order to be happy, and throughout the show this is the constant tension.

Last night did not disappoint. The second Topol walked onto the stage the audience went nuts, barely allowing him to get his first line out, the famous "A fiddler on the roof...sounds crazy, no?" and from that moment on, Topol held us spellbound. If you haven't seen the movie, it really is spectacular, add it to your Netflix list and spend a couple hours catching glimpses into a beautiful Jewish community.

And now, just because these lines were cracking us up last night, here are our favorite quotes from this amazing show:

Tevye: As Abraham said, "I am a stranger in a strange land...”
Mendel: Moses said that.
Tevye: Ah. Well, as King David said, "I am slow of speech, and slow of tongue."
Mendel: That was also Moses.
Tevye: For a man who was slow of tongue, he talked a lot."

"I know, I know. We are Your chosen people. But, once in a while, can't You choose someone else? " Tevye

"He loves her. Love, it's a new style... On the other hand, our old ways were once new, weren't they?" -Tevye

"Money is the world's curse" ~Perchik
"Well then may God smite me with it! And may I never recover!" ~Tevye

Dear God, you made many, many poor people. I realize there's no shame in being poor...but it's no great honor either. So what would have been so terrible if I had a small fortune?
-Tevye

"You're honest and decent, even though you are a Jew." ~Constable
"Oh, thank you, Your Honor. How often does a man get a compliment like that?" ~Tevye

Sunday, July 19, 2009

High School Mission Trips

Anyone who ever attended high school mission trips as a high schooler may appreciate this post!

Chuck and I just returned from spending the last couple days chaperoning the junior high and senior high local mission project. We stayed at the homes of church members overnight and served at a couple organizations during the day around Glendale and Pasadena. This was my first venture into the world of youth ministry--aside from my own youth ministry experience, I have tried to steer clear of being a 'youth volunteer' for the last 10 years. There are various reasons for that which don't need to be posted here, because really, that isn't the point of this reflection :) However, my husband is one of the youth interns at Glendale Presbyterian, and they needed some help this weekend with transportation, so I said I'd join them. The weekend went really well overall, and I really enjoyed being with the students and spending time with them. What I found most entertaining however was reflecting on the differences between attending a mission trip as a high school student versus attending as the adult leader. I went on several trips as a high schooler, but haven't been on one since, and well, the differences were quite fun to reflect on! So, in no particular order, here are a few things that I've realized are a bit different!
  • As a high school student, every mission trip I attended is categorized in my brain not by the work I participated in but rather by the particular boy I had a crush on that week. Mission trips are breeding grounds for youth group crushes to emerge and I would spend the entire week 'stalking' a particular guy with my friends, trying to figure out if he liked anyone etc. For instance, freshman year, Stephen caught my eye. The following year was the week of Ben, and so on. Not the most humble, servant-like attitudes to go into a mission trip with, I realize that. My friends will enjoy this, they were part of nurturing these crushes :) Now that I am married I DO still have a crush--only this time, he knows it. Instead of coming up to me the last day of the trip to ask "what was your name again?" like most of my high school crushes seemed to manage to do, this 'adult' crush puts his arms around me and ignores the teasing of the adolescent boys as he whispers in my ear that he loves me :)
  • No longer do I feel the need to change my clothes inside my sleeping bag, the awkward relationship between a high school girl and her body has definitely subsided, praise the Lord!
  • I never drank coffee in high school, but now that I do, I realize the importance of the rule that coffee is reserved for the leaders first, with the left overs going to students as they desire. Early mornings after late nights of lying awake listening to giggles = sleepy adults in the morning! (The kids are tired too, but here is where age has it's perks of getting dibs on the caffeine first).
  • I used to despise the wake up crew of adults that would poke their heads into the tents and start waking us up--in Mexico a bull horn was even used--talk about a painful wake up call! However, I am starting to realize the benefits of this. Rousing sleepy teens at 7 AM is a difficult chore--we had amazing and cooperative kids, but still! Wake up crew does not equal my new favorite job!
  • The Leader's Meeting. I used to think of this as some sort of secret society--after we were all occupied for the evening the adults would drift away to huddle together. We never knew what was being talked about, which kids were in trouble, what sorts of secret information was being shared--I just KNEW it was a time of fascinating dialogue and imparting of really really good gossip about my peers. Yeah, that's not exactly how it works. Basically the leader's meeting is a time when we are all super tired, not exactly thinking clearly, and having to make logistical decisions about the next day which in theory should be simple but in our state of exhaustion appears to be complicated. Yes, Leader's Meetings--not the exciting Secret Society I once believed.
Overall we had a great weekend gardening, playing with kids, moving furniture around etc. Here are a couple photos from the weekend.
Playing some kind of game during a lunch break, I never did figure this one out.We made animal masks with the kids one afternoon, which basically turned into silly pipe cleaner creations, which everyone had fun with!Caitlin and ISigne and Rachel