The night before school started again for the quarter Charles and I headed out to a bed and breakfast in Solvang, CA (past Santa Barbara in wine country) for our Christmas gift to one another. We decided there wasn't really anything we needed or wanted to buy for each other, so we'd rather put the money towards something memorable. It was an absolutely gorgeous day to go, spectacular scenery! We really didn't do a whole lot, we played a board game, enjoyed the B&B's wine/appetizer hour, went out to dinner, and slept for about 10 straight hours which was heavenly! Monday before we headed home we visited the Santa Ynez Mission and the Buttonwood Farms Winery. Enjoy the photos!
Wednesday, January 13, 2010
Monday, January 11, 2010
A perfect Northwest weekend
This past weekend I got to go up to Portland to spend the weekend with Jenn! It was a perfect Northwest winter weekend! On Friday I got to spend the day with Jenn in her first grade class which was a blast--first graders are a crack up! I don't know how she does it all day, I was exhausted after a few hours, but I loved seeing her in action. She is a phenomenal teacher :) Friday night I finally got to meet the famous Sandeep, her wonderful boyfriend :) The three of us spent all day Saturday hanging out--they showed me a perfect Portland day! One coffee shop, thai food, one phenomenal chocolate shop, a wine bar, and a restaurant that has a Mediterranean/middle eastern feel. Definitely some good food and wine! Sunday I got to go to their church and visit a delicious French cafe for lunch and another coffee shop. Enjoy a few photos!
When Jenn was away from the table we took this photo for her
A perfect NW day--sweaters, a scarf, and mochas in fabulous mugs. YUM!
January's Monthly Menu Plan
I know January is almost half over (can you believe it??) and I still haven't posted The Plan for this month. And I realize many of you could care less, but because I find it a good discipline to think through what we'll be eating, how our money is being spent etc, the info is below. Sticking to this monthly menu plan in December worked wonderfully--I loved knowing exactly what was for dinner, what I needed to buy each week etc. It made things SO easy! So here's January's plan. Once again, I chose a few main meals that I'll make every other week (so eating each twice this month) and bought the ingredients in one costco/Albertson's shopping trip. Enjoy the recipes! And if any of you come up with a menu plan, I'd love to see what you're making!
Click on each line for the recipe
Click on each line for the recipe
Monday, January 4, 2010
And I Resolve...
Ahhh a new year. 2010. I think it has a nice ring to it. I like new beginnings, and for the first time I am not a student anymore. The fall no longer is the beginning of my year. January is. I enjoy thinking through what a new start means. I realize there is all kinds of research that says January is actually not the best time of the year to try to change habits in our lives--it's the dead of winter and that really isn't all that inspiring for most people! But that hasn't deterred me. (I live in LA, there is no winter here....not "real" winter anyways!) I have had fun this past week thinking through different areas of my life and things I either want to hang on to or things I want to change about my habits, patterns, or lifestyle. I realized just how many facets of life I have (we all have). Usually most of us make a goal that centers on one area of life, without really thinking through other aspects of our lives (this is always what I have done in the past). But I wanted this year to be different. We all have our physical health. We all have some type of spiritual aspect of our lives. We have social aspects of our lives etc. So I decided that this year, I was going to make several goals for 6 different areas of my life. I know, that sounds a bit extreme, but some are simple and some are going to take most of the year to accomplish. This is the first year I have ever written them down on a piece of paper the perfect size to paperclip into my day planner, so I'll have them in front of me each day. I know that many of you are thinking I'm nuts, that I'll probably fail (and you are right, on some of these goals, I will probably fail, but that is not a reason to not try!) I'm not going to share all my goals here, I'll do that with a few friends for accountability, but here on the blog I will share my 6 categories/spaces of life that I thought through, and I'll give you a couple of examples of things on my list this year.
1. Social life--here I wrote down specific people in my life I want to be better about maintaining contact with, and gave myself a goal for how often I wanted to make sure I was working on getting in touch with them. Sometimes I feel a little overwhelmed at the number of people I want to keep in touch with, and it felt really good to make a list on paper and make a plan for how I'd love to do that better this year.
2. Spiritual health--one of my goals here was to practice a technology-free sabbath one day a week. I don't need to be connected to my computer or text messaging all the time, so one of my goals is to turn them all the way off for a day and take space to do something else.
3. Personal life--this was a fun category :) My 28 books that I want to read this year are in this category, as is the goal of learning to knit something other than a scarf this year!
4. Professional life--writing down a specific number of hours I wanted to devote to job hunting, paperwork needed to future ordination stuff etc went in this category.
5. Physical health--goals for how often I wanted to do different types of work outs went here.
6. Marriage--we all have things we do that negatively impact those we live with. I spent some time thinking and praying about a few things I wanted to work on in order to love and serve my husband even more.
I'm not superwoman. I won't be perfect at all of these. I won't even be close on some. But I resolve to stop making excuses as to why I can't work on some of these things. In 2010, I resolve to try. And that's all I expect of myself.
1. Social life--here I wrote down specific people in my life I want to be better about maintaining contact with, and gave myself a goal for how often I wanted to make sure I was working on getting in touch with them. Sometimes I feel a little overwhelmed at the number of people I want to keep in touch with, and it felt really good to make a list on paper and make a plan for how I'd love to do that better this year.
2. Spiritual health--one of my goals here was to practice a technology-free sabbath one day a week. I don't need to be connected to my computer or text messaging all the time, so one of my goals is to turn them all the way off for a day and take space to do something else.
3. Personal life--this was a fun category :) My 28 books that I want to read this year are in this category, as is the goal of learning to knit something other than a scarf this year!
4. Professional life--writing down a specific number of hours I wanted to devote to job hunting, paperwork needed to future ordination stuff etc went in this category.
5. Physical health--goals for how often I wanted to do different types of work outs went here.
6. Marriage--we all have things we do that negatively impact those we live with. I spent some time thinking and praying about a few things I wanted to work on in order to love and serve my husband even more.
I'm not superwoman. I won't be perfect at all of these. I won't even be close on some. But I resolve to stop making excuses as to why I can't work on some of these things. In 2010, I resolve to try. And that's all I expect of myself.
Friday, January 1, 2010
My First Christmas by Lily Abigail
Aunt Sarah said I could be a guest writer here on her blog to tell you all about my very first Christmas! I got to spend 3 weeks in a place called Minnesota with my Mommy, Daddy and my Grandma and Papa. Auntie Sarah and Uncle Charles came to visit me for a week too! It was so fun getting to know my family, I think they like me a lot, even if I am fussy! Minnesota is a really cold place, but I didn't mind too much because every time I went outside I got to be nice and bundled up and someone always carried me zipped into their jacket so I wasn't ever freezing, which was really very nice of them. Here are some of the things I got to do while I was there and some of the people I got to spend time with.



This is my Papa, I think he loves me a lot! And I love him too! Papa calls me his Little Squirt. I got to hang out with him a lot while I was there, sometimes during the day and sometimes late at night when I just couldn't go back to sleep. My mommy would sometimes take me into Grandma and Papa's room and Papa would get up with me. I liked those night time cuddles with him, he would wrap me all snug in a blanket, give me a bottle, and then bounce me on the big exercise ball until I fell asleep in his arms. He also helped make me smile and would take lots of pictures of me. Here we are playing Settlers of Catan together. I got to play on Papa's team here and I think I helped him win.
Grandma and Papa gave me a mirror for Christmas and it was my favorite present! I smiled and laughed and squealed at the funny little girl inside of it. I don't quite know who she is yet, but she sure is cute! I think I want to be her friend. Papa would look in the mirror with me and tell me the little girl in there is so beautiful. I wonder who she is? Maybe she'll be my friend.
I like my baths! At home I have a little tiny bathtub that fits me, but here at Grandma and Papa's house I get to play in Grandma's really really big bath tub. Grandma thought I looked kind of silly, being so little in such a big tub, so she took this picture with Papa's camera. I like being in the water where it's nice and warm, but when you take me out, watch out, I will scream at you!
My Grandma is the bestest Grandma in the whole world, she is so fun and she loves me so much! I like hanging out with Grandma! We did all kinds of things together while I was at her house. Grandma calls me her Little Lily Pad, which I like! She is a very good snuggler. She gives me lots of kisses on my head. She read me stories too! She read to me about the 5 Little Monkeys who were jumping on the bed. Those were silly monkeys, they kept falling off! Grandma also read to me a story about a garden, but I got a little fussy during that one because there weren't any pictures to look at! But she tried, she sat on the floor with me and read me her story and one of these days I'll be big enough to hear the whole thing!
This is Grandma reading me her garden story.

One of my favorite things about Grandma is that she lets me kick and play on the floor a lot, which I love! When I'm really fussy and am tired of being around a lot of people, Grandma takes me to a room that is quiet and lets me lay on the floor, watch the ceiling fan, look at the Christmas tree, and would talk and sing to me really quietly. It always helped me calm down, I loved it! She sang me songs about Mr. Moon, and about a place called Good Ship Lollypop, which she said my Great-Grandma Nan taught her. I think I like these songs! Grandma would play with my toes, kiss my tummy, and use my hands to help me sit up. That's really hard to do though, because my head is really heavy and hard to hold up! But Grandma helped me practice!
I got to take lots of cozy naps while I was in Minnesota too. Sometimes I didn't sleep for very long, I would pop my eyes open and surprise whoever was holding me because they would think I was sound asleep. Ha ha! I fooled them! But I got to snuggle with so many people, it was the best!
Sometimes it wasn't their arms I slept in! Here I am napping on Mommy's legs!
I didn't mind, it was cozy!
This is my Auntie Sarah, she calls me her little munchkin and Little Peanut. I got to nap with her a bunch too! I spent a lot of time hanging out with her, rocking in a rocking chair, playing on the floor, and helping her win Settlers of Catan. She liked to read, so I napped on her while she read her book in the chair. I think it was pretty great for both of us!
Aunt Sarah sang me songs as she rocked me, which I liked too. She sang me the same songs my Grandma did, but sometimes when she sang them, she would start to get tears in her eyes. She said the songs reminded her of her Gramma Nan, who knew I was coming but never got to meet me. She said Gramma Nan would have loved me a lot and would have sang me her songs, but since she isn't here anymore my Grandma, my Mommy, and my Auntie Sarah would have to teach me her songs about Mr. Moon, and a silly song about a Monkey who loves a Chimp.
This is my Uncle Charles, who I got to hang out with too! He is funny, when I am a little bit older I think he's going to make me laugh a lot! Here he is talking to me as I swing in my swing.
I got to snuggle with him on Christmas morning, he kept me warm and cozy!
He also bounced me on the ball quite a bit and helped me get my little bubbles out of my tummy by burping me, which I really needed!
I got a couple of fun Christmas presents too! My Great Grandma Hildie made me several blankets and quilts which I just know will be so warm and cozy to snuggle in! The colors are so pretty too!
Auntie Sarah made me a book on the internet and had it printed for me. It's called Who Loves Lily? and it is all about people who love me! Every page is a different family member, and each page says: "Who Loves Lily?" then it says "Papa loves Lily!" or "Auntie Hope loves Lily!" or "Auntie Sarah loves Lily!" There are pictures of all my family in it, even my puppy Taylor! And all of them wrote to me about the things they are excited to do with me some day! I am going to be a busy little girl! I really like looking at everyone's faces in the book!
And lastly, I had to play dress up a couple of times which I did NOT like one bit! Dresses are COLD!
This is my Christmas dress.
And this is my family's baptismal dress. It's been worn by a lot of people, and they wanted to see if it fit me. I didn't like it very much!
Happy new year everyone!
Love,
Lily
I learned how to smile! Aren't I cute?? Everyone thought so, because when I moved my mouth like this they all started pointing these things at me that flashed and clicked. So smiling must be kind of cool!
This is Grandma reading me her garden story.
This is my Christmas dress.
Love,
Lily
A Christmas Letter from Jesus
Okay, I know, super cheesy title. I am usually not a huge fan of random forwards, or "letters from God" about the state of America today etc. But this caught my eye on facebook today and after talking about it with my husband, I wanted to share it with you all. We had several conversations over break with family members on both sides of our family about the trend to say "Happy Holidays" instead of "Merry Christmas." People have strong opinions on both sides of this issue, and that's great, people are entitled to feel however they want to feel on this subject. In interest of full disclosure, both of us fully celebrate Christmas and fully support secular retailers saying "Happy Holidays." I expect to hear Merry Christmas at church with fellow Christians. I don't need to hear it from a non-Christian store clerk at Target for me to remember the reason I celebrate. (Certainly if they want to say Merry Christmas, that's awesome, but I am definitely not offended if they give me a generic "happy holidays"). Regardless of how you may feel about this, I invite people to read through this following "Letter from Jesus" about this issue. I don't know who wrote it, but I think it brings up some great points and reminds us what the real reason for the season is: loving and serving one another, not arguing with people who don't share our faith over the fact that they use the "wrong" language wishing us a happy holiday season.
It has come to my attention that many of you are upset that folks are taking My name out of the season.
How I personally feel about this celebration can probably be most easily understood by those of you who have been blessed with children of your own. I don't care what you call the day. If you want to celebrate My birth, work on getting along and loving one another.
Now, having said that let Me go on. If it bothers you that the town in which you live doesn't allow a scene depicting My birth, then just get rid of a couple of Santa and snowmen and put in a small Nativity scene on your own front lawn. If all My followers did that there wouldn't be any need for such a scene on the town square because there would be many of them all around town.
Stop worrying about the fact that people are calling the tree a holiday tree, instead of a Christmas tree. It was I who made all trees. You can remember Me anytime you see any tree. Decorate a grape vine if you wish: I actually spoke of that one in a teaching, explaining who I am in relation to you and what each of our tasks were. If you have forgotten that one, look up John 15: 1 - 8.
If you want to give Me a present in remembrance of My birth here is my wish list. Choose something from it:
1. Instead of writing protest letters objecting to the way My birthday is being celebrated, write letters of love and hope to soldiers away from home. They are terribly afraid and lonely this time of year. I know, they tell Me all the time.
2. Visit someone in a nursing home. You don't have to know them personally. They just need to know that someone cares about them.
3. Instead of writing the President complaining about the wording on the cards his staff sent out this year, why don't you write and tell him that you'll be praying for him and his family this year. Then follow up.. It will be nice hearing from you again.
4. Instead of giving your children a lot of gifts you can't afford and they don't need, spend time with them. Tell them the story of My birth, and why I came to live with you down here. Hold them in your arms and remind them that I love them.
5 Pick someone that has hurt you in the past and forgive him or her.
6. Did you know that someone in your town will attempt to take their own life this season because they feel so alone and hopeless? Since you don't know who that person is, try giving everyone you meet a warm smile; it could make the difference.
7. Instead of nit picking about what the retailer in your town calls the holiday, be patient with the people who work there. Give them a warm smile and a kind word. Even if they aren't allowed to wish you a "Merry Christmas" that doesn't keep you from wishing them one. Then stop shopping there on Sunday. If the store didn't make so much money on that day they'd
close and let their employees spend the day at home with their families
8. If you really want to make a difference, support a missionary--especially one who takes My love and Good News to those who have never heard My name.
9. Here's a good one. There are individuals and whole families in your town who not only will have no "Christmas" tree, but neither will they have any presents to give or receive. If you don't know them, buy some food and a few gifts and give them to the Salvation Army or some other
charity which believes in Me and they will make the delivery for you.
10. Finally, if you want to make a statement about your belief in and loyalty to Me, then behave like a Christian. Don't do things in secret that you wouldn't do in My presence. Let people know by your actions that you are one of mine.
Don't forget; I am God and can take care of Myself. Just love Me and do what I have told you to do. I'll take care of all the rest. Check out the list above and get to work; time is short. I'll help you, but the ball is now in your court. And do have a most blessed Christmas with all those
whom you love.
Letter from Jesus about Christmas
It has come to my attention that many of you are upset that folks are taking My name out of the season.
How I personally feel about this celebration can probably be most easily understood by those of you who have been blessed with children of your own. I don't care what you call the day. If you want to celebrate My birth, work on getting along and loving one another.
Now, having said that let Me go on. If it bothers you that the town in which you live doesn't allow a scene depicting My birth, then just get rid of a couple of Santa and snowmen and put in a small Nativity scene on your own front lawn. If all My followers did that there wouldn't be any need for such a scene on the town square because there would be many of them all around town.
Stop worrying about the fact that people are calling the tree a holiday tree, instead of a Christmas tree. It was I who made all trees. You can remember Me anytime you see any tree. Decorate a grape vine if you wish: I actually spoke of that one in a teaching, explaining who I am in relation to you and what each of our tasks were. If you have forgotten that one, look up John 15: 1 - 8.
If you want to give Me a present in remembrance of My birth here is my wish list. Choose something from it:
1. Instead of writing protest letters objecting to the way My birthday is being celebrated, write letters of love and hope to soldiers away from home. They are terribly afraid and lonely this time of year. I know, they tell Me all the time.
2. Visit someone in a nursing home. You don't have to know them personally. They just need to know that someone cares about them.
3. Instead of writing the President complaining about the wording on the cards his staff sent out this year, why don't you write and tell him that you'll be praying for him and his family this year. Then follow up.. It will be nice hearing from you again.
4. Instead of giving your children a lot of gifts you can't afford and they don't need, spend time with them. Tell them the story of My birth, and why I came to live with you down here. Hold them in your arms and remind them that I love them.
5 Pick someone that has hurt you in the past and forgive him or her.
6. Did you know that someone in your town will attempt to take their own life this season because they feel so alone and hopeless? Since you don't know who that person is, try giving everyone you meet a warm smile; it could make the difference.
7. Instead of nit picking about what the retailer in your town calls the holiday, be patient with the people who work there. Give them a warm smile and a kind word. Even if they aren't allowed to wish you a "Merry Christmas" that doesn't keep you from wishing them one. Then stop shopping there on Sunday. If the store didn't make so much money on that day they'd
close and let their employees spend the day at home with their families
8. If you really want to make a difference, support a missionary--especially one who takes My love and Good News to those who have never heard My name.
9. Here's a good one. There are individuals and whole families in your town who not only will have no "Christmas" tree, but neither will they have any presents to give or receive. If you don't know them, buy some food and a few gifts and give them to the Salvation Army or some other
charity which believes in Me and they will make the delivery for you.
10. Finally, if you want to make a statement about your belief in and loyalty to Me, then behave like a Christian. Don't do things in secret that you wouldn't do in My presence. Let people know by your actions that you are one of mine.
Don't forget; I am God and can take care of Myself. Just love Me and do what I have told you to do. I'll take care of all the rest. Check out the list above and get to work; time is short. I'll help you, but the ball is now in your court. And do have a most blessed Christmas with all those
whom you love.
My New Toy
For Christmas my parents got me my new toy, the Kindle, an electronic reader by Amazon. I'd been debating whether or not I wanted one for quite awhile now, and I think I'm going to enjoy it! I love that it is so easy to carry around, that I can carry tons (literally thousands, if I ever choose to download that many!) of books with me at one time (which will be awesome for travel!). I love that it has internet access pretty much anywhere so I can get online, check email from the airport, and browse Amazon books from wherever I am. I am still definitely a paper person, and I will always continue to read "real" books, but I think for awhile anyways, I'm going to be a Kindle fan :) For those who aren't familiar with a kindle, you buy books through Amazon and it automatically sends the book straight to my kindle, within a minute or two. And, the biggest bonus is that all the books are way cheaper than buying them in print. For instance, most new releases (like Dan Brown's new book) are $25 and come out only in hardback. They are $9.99 on Kindle, and many classics are even free. My mom downloaded 5 different books for me that I am very excited about--in fact I even changed my 28 Books to read this year list to accommodate these new titles :) I just finished the "real" book I was reading, so now I'm about to start my first Kindle book (Dan Brown's The Lost Symbol). I'll keep you all posted!
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