1. Did you love the first day of school, or did you dread it?
I loved it. I was one of those nerdy kids who had all her school supplies organized weeks in advance and her outfit laid out the night before and couldn't sleep with excitement--I loved the first day of school!
2. What was your favorite year in elementary school and why?
I might have to say 3rd grade. I had a great teacher (Ms. Hansen), my best friend Katie was in my class, I remember doing a lot of fun projects like writing our autobiographies, learning cursive, and taking lots of timed tests to learn our multiplication tables. I don't really have many negative memories from 3rd grade.
3. When you remember your first day of high school, what comes to mind now?
I remember being jumpy and scared that I was going to get lost, run over in the halls by a football player, or never be able to find anyone to eat lunch with. But then I remember it not being too bad. I think that was the day I met my friend Miranda who would later become a bridesmaid in my wedding (freshman algebra, quite a lot of memories in that class!), I had my first class with Mrs. Givens (who I would have every year after that for english and yearbook), and I remember being proud that I survived.
4. If you could share one piece of advice with today's high school students, what would it be?
Relax just a little! Life does not end if you do not get an A in every single class. I promise, I even came home with 1 C (Spanish 3...ick!) during my high school years and did it end my life? No, I got accepted to every school I applied for and was offered merit scholarships at each of them. It's okay to not be perfect--and I'd love to remind parents of this as well--the pressure I see our poor kids at church under sometimes breaks my heart.
5. What was the best part of the beginning of a school year?
The school supplies. I am a nerd, I loved shopping for our yearly school supplies, coming home and organizing them. It was a great part of the year :)
6. Top 3 favorite teachers in your life and why?
Tamara Givens--high school English and yearbook. She invested a lot in me, inside and outside the classroom, and gave me a love for literature that I am forever grateful for (especially Shakespeare!)
Donna Bengle--6th grade. I don't know what it was, but I loved Mrs. Bengle, she was the perfect balance between professional and cool, I learned a ton in her class but never felt like she didn't care or wasn't interested in me personally.
Mr. Gillespie--8th grade history. I don't even know his first name, but he made history come alive, he did all kinds of crazy things to help us experience the civil war, the american revolution, memorize the preamble to the declaration of independence etc. I loved his classes.
7. Favorite high school social event that you remember?
I think senior ball really sticks out in my mind. It was a really fun evening, all my good friends got to go together, most of us took sophomore guys as our dates (they were great guys to tag along with us!). Post-prom found us at Mels Diner at 3 AM celebrating Jenn's 18th birthday with a surprise middle of the night party :)
8. Favorite high school hang out?
We spent a lot of time at Mel's Diner that's for sure, after football games, dances, even at 3 AM post-senior prom! Ahh french fries with melted cheese dipped in ranch....yup we were healthy :)
9. What are you most proud of as you look back on your school days?
That I surrounded myself with friends who constantly lifted me up and kept me heading in the right direction. I don't know that this was my doing, I'm pretty sure God just plopped me into the midst of this group of Christians and said "okay, here's who you're going to do life with now" and for that, I am eternally grateful.
10. What do you wish you would have done differently as a student?
Not worried so much about what teachers thought of me. I was such a people-pleaser, and so much of my motivation in school was because I didn't want a teacher to look down on me, or be disappointed in me for not turning in a homework assignment on time etc. I wish I had been more focused on doing my best and letting that be good enough, I wish I'd realized people liked me for who I was, not how I performed in the classroom.