The Rehersal and Dinner

Friday night we had a great time at the rehersal and rehersal dinner hanging out and figuring out how Saturday was going to work. It was also the first time the bridesmaids and groomsmen had a chance to meet each other.
Here are Ben and I practicing walking in--Ben was Nathan's unofficial best man--Nathan decided all his guys were "best men" and so they stood in height order and his friend Dave gave the toast--it worked quite well for them!
Here comes the bride...! (and dad!) Emily was in charge of making the ribbon bouqet from the bridal shower--she did an amazing job, there were a LOT of ribbons!
Our 2 grandmas watching the chaos unfold around them...
and the beautiful moms--Nathan's mom, Gail, and my mom...
After the rehersal we all enjoyed dinner at Mimi's Cafe. Here are my dad, Kate, Dave and I. Kate & Dave are the couple in Spokane that Megan and Nathan spent the most time with...we kept teasing them that their wedding is next!
me, Hope, Emily, Kimi, and Kevin, one of the groomsmen
Megan, Nathan, Gail and Keith Backman

The Bridal Shower

On Friday afternoon I helped throw a bridal shower at Megan's god-mother's house which was a wonderful gathering of women from all parts of Megan's life...old neighbors, family members, friends of my parents--it was really fun to see everyone and celebrate Megs. Here are a few pictures from the party..
Amy, Hilary, Gail (Nathan's mom) and Brenna hanging out and getting to know one another before lunch started.

Sharon had just had her pool and patio re-done, and it was a beautiful day so we had a great outdoor eating area! Here are Amy (our old babysitter and close friend), Josie (my dad's colleagues' wife), Sharon (Megan's god-mother) and Grandma Hildie (dad's mom)

Aunt Carolyn, my cousin-in-law Julia (Brian's wife), and my Aunt Vernita (my dad's younger sister) enjoying lunch outdoors.

The cousin table--our 3 cousins Amanda, Mikaela and Rachel, and my cousin-in-law Stacie (Jason's wife)
3 of the bridesmaids--Kimi, Megan's best friend from the time she was 18 months old! Emily, a wonderful friend she met in college, and Hope, Nathan's sister. I was taking the picture and Kate wasn't at the shower, but she and Kate were friends from Whitworth. There you have the bridal party!
Megan was not a fan of the idea of a lingerie shower, so all the gifts were practical--except the one from us bridesmaids that we went in on together--we figured she couldn't fire all of us the day before the wedding!
Lunch time! I had asked several different women to bring different kinds of salads and we added french bread and cheesecake to them to complete the delicious meal! Here is Debbie Towery (a former neighbor) and her daughter Angela and I--Angela is now 15 but Megan and I started babysitting her when she was 4 so we go way back! (now she's taller than I am when I don't have shoes on, it's so sad!)


Here are Sharon and my mom--Sharon and my dad met in high school in Sacramento, and then she and him both went to Pacific Lutheran where they met my mom. Then my parents and her all resettled in Sacramento so she's been part of our lives for a LONG time!

The group during present opening
My grandma Hildie has always made us beautiful quilts for any special occasion, and when a grandchild gets married they get to pick their pattern and colors for their first "queen sized quilt" (she always makes twin quilts for us!). Here is the beautiful quilt she made for Megan and Nathan's new bedroom.

In memory of a dear friend

Early Monday morning our families' dear friend Steve Twelves passed away. Steve was diagnosed with a form of cancer 9 years ago and has endured countless surgeries, infections, removals of tumors and radiation and his body simply shut down on him after so long. When he was first diagnosed the doctors only gave him about 4 years to live, so he surpassed their expectations and was able to accomplish several of the goals he made for himself. He was able to see his youngest daughter Hilary graduate from college this past June, he got a new roof on his home, he was able to get his MGB running (he'd been rebuilding it for years in his garage and that was one of the things he wanted to accomplish before he died). Steve and his wife Phyllis have been my parents closest friends for the last 20 years, they lived across the street from us, and their kids Ryan and Hilary, were our faithful playmates for our childhood. I don't think I have any memories of New Year's Eve that don't involve our parents playing card games and laughing the night away. I have so many memories of World Series parties (especially the 1989 series of the Giants vs the A's--us Hansons were Giants fans and the Twelves are die hard A's fans and I think our families watched all the games together with much heckling involved!) Steve and my dad could always make each other laugh and had the best time together. Their birthdays were less than a week apart (Steve's would be tomorrow, August 11, and my dad's is Tuesday, August 15th) so they often celebrated together. I know that we will all miss him--his laughter, his sense of humor, his stories, seeing him in his garage tinkering with that car...

All our hearts are heavy this week as we grieve and as we hurt for his family; but we are also rejoicing that Steve knew Jesus and we know that he is dancing in heaven right now free of pain for the first time in a long time. Steve's passion before he got sick was sailing his sailboat out on our local lake--he would go out all the time and I remember getting to go with him several times. He would regularly enter races and loved being out on the water. I would like to believe that there's a place somewhere in Heaven, maybe on that glassy sea, for him to sail again...
Phyllis and Steve with my parents sometime last year when they drove his MGB to a winery for a day


Yeah, nice try Steve!
Hmmm...they look serious about this wine tasting!
This was taken in June when my parents were in Sacramento doing wedding stuff. They were enjoying what looks like a lot of Root Beer with Phyllis and Steve and Toni and Ron (the other couple in the infamous card playing, baseball watching, new year's eve celebrating group!)
Their family at Hilary's graduation in June.

A Physics Lesson in the midst of Disney Fun

I learned an important lesson about physics yesterday, while at Disneyland of all places! My wonderful former roommate, Jen, was in town with me this weekend and yesterday we spent the day with Mickey, Donald, and of course all the beautiful Princesses and Princes. Thanks to it being a weekend in July we joined several thousand other folks taking in roller coasters, parades, the Fantasmic show, and of course good Mexican food and margaritas :) It has been insanely hot down here lately, but we were pleasantly surprised to realize that all the rides inside are air conditioned, so we only had to roast while in line and then froze while inside. About half way through the day we decided we were ready for Splash Mountain—it was time to get a little wet. So we headed over there and found out everyone else had the same idea we did, so we used the fabulous new Disney invention the “Fast Pass” which allows you to get a “coupon” with a time to return on it and you get to by pass the rest of the line—but it told us to come back between 9 and 10 that night—so we decided that would be a fabulous way to end the day and kept going with other rides and dinner. When it was time for us to redeem our fast pass, we excitedly by-passed all the hundreds of people still in line and they put us in our boat (I guess it’s really a log…it is a log ride after all…). Because there were so many in line they had to fill each log, so they added 4 other women to the 2 of us. 3 of the 4 women they added to our boat were definitely larger than the two of us, but I didn’t really think too much about it. I’ve been on Splash Mountain several times in the past few months, and I have hardly even gotten more than just a little damp, and that is only during the final 500 foot drop at the end of the ride, the rest of the ride is usually a very dry, very relaxing experience. Well, when we went around the first corner last night, and our little log started floating, our feet got a little wet. I just assumed that there were bigger “waves” or more current last night because there were so many logs running because of the heat. So we keep going after commenting that the water is kind of chilly. The first “baby-drop” that is in the ride brought on another several ‘waves’ and we ended up rather wet—so now we are beginning to think that this upcoming 500 foot plummet is going to be a bit of a soggy endeavor. As we begin being pulled up the big hill at the end of the ride all the water that our little log had taken on ran through the log to the back, and then we reached the top of the hill. After the precarious pause at the summit, we headed down (and the cold water already in the log runs back over all of our feet to the front of the log) and hit the bottom in a giant splash. As we come up spluttering and exclaiming about how wet we were, we look up just in time to see this huge wave coming straight towards us (it had somehow ricocheted off the corner of the ride and was headed back towards us). As it swept over us thoroughly soaking everything in the log that wasn’t already wet we quickly realized there was nothing left to do but laugh—which we did, and ended up with mouths full of water as the wave crashed over our poor soaked bodies—so we ended the ride trying to not swallow what we were sure was wonderfully clean Disneyland ride water ;) As we climbed off the ride, shoes and clothes sloshing all the way through the exit and gaining several funny looks from those waiting outside Splash Mountain (apparently people don’t normally exit the ride literally wringing their skirts out and trying to get their soaked t-shirts from sticking to their skin…) We realize that the restrooms in Disneyland unfortunately do not have dryers, so we did the only other thing we could think of—went back to Big Thunder Mountain railroad and hoped that the speed of the rollercoaster and the night air would work together to dry us out a bit…and it worked surprisingly well! (Although we still had to peel our clothes off when we got home a couple hours later, so it didn’t work completely!)

So, last night I managed to learn firsthand about physics and water displacement better than I could have in any physics class I ever took! But in spite of how chilly it was the rest of the evening, Disneyland (and Splash Mountain) was a fabulous adventure—Captain Jack Sparrow makes several cameo appearances in the new Pirates of the Caribbean and since I have a little crush on Johnny Depp right now, this was a very welcomed surprise :) And we explored Downtown Disney and took advantage of the fact that you can enter and exit the park once there, so we left to have dinner at a Mexican restaurant in the new shopping district and listened to some very fun live music. It was a great break from homework and a fabulously beautiful day with a wonderful friend. Anyone else up for Disneyland? I’ve decided I’m a little obsessed with Thunder Mountain Railroad and will make you ride it several times with me!

So now I have exactly 1 week to write 3 final papers including my first Greek exegetical paper (which I'm actually a little excited to attempt--so I must be an official seminary geek!) and then it's off to 2 months of summer vacation which will find me in Sacramento, Houston twice, Seattle and LA....1 more week to go!

Happy 4th of July!!

Happy 4th of July! Ok so it's a little bit after the 4th now, but I'm just now getting a moment to put some of these pictures up. For the 4th about 15 of us from the Presby group headed over to San Marino to spend the day at Lacy Park hanging out doing nothing. It was wonderfully relaxing and we had the added bonus of having our new friend Barbara in town with us for the 4th! Sophie, Becca and I met Barbara at Cursillo in Houston back in April and she's been taking classes from Fuller online for awhile now and is here in Pasadena for 2 weeks doing a summer intensive, so she was able to be with us that day! Here are some photos from the day:

Denise and Daisy came to join us too!

Sarah, Barbara and Sophie outside San Marino Community Church, the PCUSA church Sophie and Becca work at which was 2 blocks from the park.

Sophie had preached at SMCC the previous Sunday and her name was still up on the board out front (ok it is her "other" name--Marian)

Sarah, Sophie, Jenn and Denise hanging out with Daisy waiting for the fireworks

I think I am definitely not in Seattle any more judging by the palm tree backdrop to the fireworks!

Here Comes the Bride....(and groom!)

My little sister is getting married 1 month from today!! Just thought I would continue to share my excitement for them with you all!

Popcicles, the Pentateuch, and Pride & Prejudice

Yeah, didn't really mean to do the whole alliteration thing in my title, but those are 3 of the things my past week has consisted of. I realized something this past week. Popcicles and Otter Pops--they are not just for kids! They are an incredibly refreshing treat and when it is a bazillion degrees outside, nothing beat a cold dessert--especially one that will turn your tongue blue :) So stop reading, go grab a popcicle...I promise, you'll enjoy it!

I'm also in the middle of my 5 week class on the Pentateuch, and this class is absolutely amazing. Easily one of my favorite classes at Fuller so far, I don't think I have ever learned this much about scripture in such a short amount of time. It definitely has not been easy--not just in terms of work load (which is ridiculous for 5 weeks) but in terms of really looking at this portion of the Bible and asking hard questions--who wrote it? How do we know? (the usual answer is Moses, but how did Moses write the account of his own death and how did he know how the world was created?) What is the personality of God in Genesis, and why does God seem to change a bit throughout the book (well not in His personality, but in the way he relates to humans)? Why are there 2 different creation stories and why do they greatly differ in many of their details? How does God relate to women in these stories? What do their stories mean for us? I don't think I have ever dug into scripture and been forced to think for myself in this way before, and it has been an amazing experience, and Dr. Goldingay's teaching style has allowed us to wrestle with the text like nothing I've ever done before. Sitting and reading all 50 chapters of Genesis in 2 days was a LONG assignment, but it was amazing and I saw so many things in the stories that I've always missed before because we usually read scripture in 1 or 2 chapter chunks. Onto Exodus...that's what I'm doing tonight...it's shorter though, only 40 chapters!

Pride & Prejudice....so I decided to wade my way through a Jane Austen novel because my wonderful former roommates were appalled that I'd never done so, especially after living with them for 2 years, so I decided I was going to do it! Yeah...so far the story is ok, but I'm not so sure it's my new favorite :) Last night I was reading a few chapters before bed (after doing homework for awhile) and after about 3 pages I found myself saying "this is my fun reading book in the midst of class?! I don't have the slightest idea what in the world I just read for 3 pages! What in the world is this thing about?!" So I had to rewind...Tuesday we're all hanging out in a park all day for the 4th and reading and playing games etc....I think I'm going to break out something that requires a little less concentration...Angels & Demons is next on the list, maybe I'll break that one out...Don't worry Heather & Lynn, I'll get through it eventually :)